The Right Time!!!

It’s just 1 me with and so many desires, I don’t know which 1 is to be fulfilled and when is the “right time”!  Oh God, will someone tell me what this “right time” is and when does it show up? I have so many things in my mind that I want to do but everyone says this is not the right time…and I feel so too sometimes. But it’s been long now that I have been waiting for the “right time”.

Okay now it’s like I have got three humungous tasks on my head on which I am supposed to concentrate completely but I really want to take up an extra curricular activity. My heart is pouncing to do it but I don’t know whether I’ll be able to manage it or not because it’s certainly not going to be that easy! Many said first concentrate on your major responsibility and stop thinking about such ways of wasting time and a few say that I should give it a thought, plan things up and then I shall be able to follow my heart as well as concentrate on the more important stuff.

Why are we always supposed to wait for the right time?  I had read in an article that ‘Right time to do things is now because if we wait for the right time it’s never going to arrive’. It’s so true, if you feel like doing it do it now because things generally don’t work out as per the plan so certain things need not be planned. If the decision goes wrong, its fine because you had taken it without any one else’s influence so be happy with the mistake done by you, next time you will know what not to do. And if it turns out to be correct then nothing like it so eventually just follow your heart…so I think I am going to try it this time and I think everyone should do so too. 

Positive+ positive+ positive+ negative+ positive = negative

As per the law of attraction positivity works 4 times faster and effectively than the negativity. Then why does it so happen that despite of being 80% positive & 20% negative, the negative thing happens?? I am a firm believer of law of attraction and it’s been 3 years that I am trying to walk on its lines. When I earlier discovered it I tried to link every of my important past events with it and it proved right. Since then I have been striving hard to work on my law of attraction making it a point that I think positive all the time. Now a normal human being cannot be positive 24*7 and I am normal so I do have my fears, boredom, sadness and other such negative feelings at times. I cannot control it because I am no saint!!

Prior to the time I read ‘The secret’, many positive things had happened but after that, the number of negative instances has exceeded the positive ones.  Why is everything going wrong? Maybe I have perceived the law of attraction in a wrong way, maybe because I am trying so hard to be positive so that positive things happen to me it worsening more. What does it mean? Should I stop thinking about this positivity-negativity thing in the greed of good things happening in my life, yes maybe that’s it, maybe that’s what we I mean me and all other confused creatures in the case should do. There’s a need to calm down and chill and not think whether what I am doing or thinking is positive or negative. All this is sheer stupidity and who does that or thinks so much??  

There’s a saying the more you run behind something the more it goes away from you.  That doesn’t mean we should stop working for the achievement we want, it means think and expect less because with expectations comes the fear of failure which gives rise to negativity . One should never stop trying hard it’s just that we should never expect, I know it’s very difficult not to expect but eventually it helps so why not do something which makes things easier for yourself. So working hard for your dreams or in any hard situation without expectations is the key. After all there is a holy saying too that reads,” Do your duty as the nature dictates. All work fetters as all fire gives smoke…”

As happy as possible…

Being happy is one of those things which I believe god has left on us. It always has been at our option to be happy or to sulk. I know life doesn’t go according to our plan always and there are huge shockers that come our way like a bolt from the blue that make us feel like life sucks !! But if there is something bad going on in your life that doesn’t mean u cannot smile and be happy… happiness has never been an achievement its an emotion that makes us feel good, then why do people choose to be sad if they can be happy and smile even when life is giving them a hard time!  I mean, isn’t it already enough that you are going through a tough time & there is so much stress, tension & frustration around! You can think about the situation you want to be in or with people you want to be with and within seconds you will find yourself smiling. Being happy is as easy as being sad and lonely. There is no harm in making yourself feel good by smiling and at least trying to be happy when you have got the blues, it just helps you recover soon and also helps to be back in action.

I personally believe in keeping smiling all the time no matter what comes my way. Of course I get sad and feel lonely and get all those crappy feelings but they don’t stay for long or even if they stay I find things that make me feel better and make in smile in those horrid circumstances. I think everyone should implement this in their lives and trust me it will minimize the number of times you say “oh god, life sucks!!”  Life truly is very short to be wasted on tears and sorrows; we should try to balance it with smiles and titters. We cannot be unfair to ourselves, to our life! So all I want to say is, be sad, do cry but don’t forget to laugh and to make yourself happy because it’s absolutely justified!!

Sometimes or maybe many a times…

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There have been many instances when I feel m lost, that there’s no 1 around me…many of my friends feel  I think a little to much about stuff and I am an emotional fool, maybe its true, maybe its not. Everyone has a dark patch in their lives and they don’t like to disclose that, then why do people become so judgmental about others? Why any pre-conceived notion? What’s there on the exterior may not be true always then how can people go on commenting about every passerby. Such people who feel they have achieved the highest maturity levels on the basis of which they decide and categorize others are actually a bunch of big-time losers who have no substance in their own lives and so they thrive at the expense of others…!!

I feel sometimes I over-expect things but isn’t it okay to over-expect from your close friends because if not from them should I expect, then from whom..??

They say I always play my part well and its others who are at fault if that’s the case then why do I punish myself for their mistake then wouldn’t it be much better if I hadn’t played my part well ever.

I always believe that when u give someone huge importance in ur life u want to command equal amount of importance in theirs and when u realize that’s not the case or when they fail to give those warm gestures u feel u have been betrayed at least I feel so.

I have always prioritized my people over my career which has harmed me immensely in my academics.  Frankly, earlier I was aware of this mistake but never felt the severe urge of correcting it but now I think I am doing it for the first time, for myself, for my betterment without caring about what people think…and it feels good!

Yes, maybe that was the problem people keep themselves and their career 1^st  and then every thing and everyone else which is so correct and I did it the other way round so I suffered in both ways and lost so much…I hope and pray that this change never changes ever. I owe this to myself I cannot afford to make me suffer anymore!

I have learnt this from a friend of mine that it’s better to be wrong to everyone else than to your own self although her way of teaching me this was a little harsh but nonetheless it will help me now I hope…!!

And having said all these things I still love my friends a lot and will always do. How can I ever stop loving them? They have done a lot for me, if I am unsatisfied and confused it’s my problem and not their fault. I can proudly say, I have the best set of people.

The sand castle…

Sometimes no matter how hard we try things don't work out the way we wanted. While building a sand castle at the beach one always remains cautious about the waves and builds it at a proper distance from the sea and at a suitable place where the sand is moist and when the castle is about to be ready a huge wave comes and destroys the castle and all the efforts go in vain...now there may be some mistake somewhere in the entire plan...things generally cannot go wrong without our own mistake...we always need to figure out what went wrong and mere realization is not enough we need to correct the places we had gone wrong...our dreams and desires are just like the castle of sand, they require genuine efforts. Without inserting required inputs we cannot get the desired output!!

People say that failure teaches you the real meaning of success & those who have not yet faced failure they have lost a valuable experience! According to me this is utter crap…people who haven’t faced failure know the true value of success and hence they worked their butt out to achieve it in the 1^st go. But better late than never...When people will watch your beautiful castle of sand and waves can do nothing except increasing its beauty no one will bother to ask you the amount of time, efforts and attempts it had demanded, they will just admire it.

The block...

I just sometime back came to know about this blockage in blogspot...its just been a day I created my blog here but I have not yet faced any problem in this regard (touchwood). I hope all this gets sorted soon. I would certainly hate to lose this blog.

happy valentine's day

Yes we all know the old saint valentine story so i wont repeat it.14th of February the day of love as we call it is the one where we are suppose to express our love to our loved one's.We all know there exists a category of people who are very cynical towards this day of love,they say why just the valentine's day we can celebrate love 365days a year!! now would like to ask those people how many days in a year they actually celebrate their love towards family,friends,loved ones or even their pets for that matter..!!

we never stop loving but we sure do stop expressing...today if u go and express your love to your lover (if you are in a relationship) or ur parents for example (if you  are single) they will be more than happy...then what's the harm in making them feel special...i love to be made feel special,who doesn' t ?? so please go and express out yourself to your loved ones,do not fear to say i love u to the people you love and trust me their reactions will make you feel on cloud nine...happy valentine's day :) :)

getting started

Its my 1st time here in the blogging arena...i know there is no need to feel nervous but its kinda in my personality to get all jittery...but yes it feels really good... i think every person who has many things going on in their heads but are unable to express it to their friends & family,blogging is surely a big solution,a super stress-buster...its all about being expressive and creative which i think every person should be or rather is and for those who call themselves as introverts & inexpressive there surely will come a moment when u will be fed up of being so reclusive...everyone needs to open up after all who likes to live in solitude its a very gloomy feeling

there sure are times when we feel to cut ourselves of this world but its all temporary,the moment we get used to the changes that took place and made us sad we go back to the normal and happy mode...like me my mood swings are so short-lived,i cannot hold on,on a particular mood for more than a few hours and i think this would be the case with many of us...its totally fine to cry,to be unhappy and to whine about things.You don't need to be perfect all the time.being imperfect at times is perfectly alright !!