'But I do love you' an amazing song by Leanne Rimes. I like the lyrics.
It's strange when people tell you, what they think about how you think. It's strange in the way that sometimes they are absolutely correct and sometimes they guess it terribly wrong.
I don't know if this happens with everyone but in the past few weeks, I've stumbled across many people, who have revealed that how I've been wrong to them. Of course, I only provoked them to let it all out. I do accept every allegation on me and I am sorry for it. Really. Acceptance is good. And it's always good to know your mistakes. Maybe initially you don't accept out of fury or whatever but with time you do realize it.
But, people cant expect you to be the way you were with them at certain time. Because we keep changing everyday, not due to other people or situations but just naturally... You can never expect some one to be the same, they were at some point of time. People change, we change, all of us. And, it's nothing wrong.
People who accept you with the ongoing changes, are very rare. It was not overnight that I myself learnt to accept things and people and changes. In fact, I am still working on it. It takes time and trust on that person. The 'blame-game' is very injurious. Acceptance is good.
Why is it so difficult to 'give a damn'?
Sometimes, it just doesn't matter what others think while sometimes you want others to take you in particular way, you want to give them your perspective and it perturbs you if they don't get you.
People- can't live with them, can't survive without them.
No, I am not judging any person here. Neither am I pointing it out to someone. This is very generic.
Gosh, I hate the fact that I just clarified myself here because this is the space where I should not be thinking of what others would think of me. But you know, now I feel daunted as in what if someone important reads this and thinks that it's for him or her and I really DON'T want to hurt any one!
God, I feel like I am in some kind of 'people-trap'! I wish I could go to some secluded & deserted beach and be there by myself and enjoy my own company. I like being with me. Although "people" have told me, being alone is being sad. But I beg to differ. Being alone is being at peace!
A few quotes that do justice to what I am trying to convey to me and to "people":
"Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don't resist them - that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like." By Lao Tzu.
T. S. Eliot - "Humankind cannot bear very much reality"
Ellen Glasgow - "Every change is not growth, as all movement is not forward"
It's strange when people tell you, what they think about how you think. It's strange in the way that sometimes they are absolutely correct and sometimes they guess it terribly wrong.
I don't know if this happens with everyone but in the past few weeks, I've stumbled across many people, who have revealed that how I've been wrong to them. Of course, I only provoked them to let it all out. I do accept every allegation on me and I am sorry for it. Really. Acceptance is good. And it's always good to know your mistakes. Maybe initially you don't accept out of fury or whatever but with time you do realize it.
But, people cant expect you to be the way you were with them at certain time. Because we keep changing everyday, not due to other people or situations but just naturally... You can never expect some one to be the same, they were at some point of time. People change, we change, all of us. And, it's nothing wrong.
People who accept you with the ongoing changes, are very rare. It was not overnight that I myself learnt to accept things and people and changes. In fact, I am still working on it. It takes time and trust on that person. The 'blame-game' is very injurious. Acceptance is good.
Why is it so difficult to 'give a damn'?
Sometimes, it just doesn't matter what others think while sometimes you want others to take you in particular way, you want to give them your perspective and it perturbs you if they don't get you.
People- can't live with them, can't survive without them.
No, I am not judging any person here. Neither am I pointing it out to someone. This is very generic.
Gosh, I hate the fact that I just clarified myself here because this is the space where I should not be thinking of what others would think of me. But you know, now I feel daunted as in what if someone important reads this and thinks that it's for him or her and I really DON'T want to hurt any one!
God, I feel like I am in some kind of 'people-trap'! I wish I could go to some secluded & deserted beach and be there by myself and enjoy my own company. I like being with me. Although "people" have told me, being alone is being sad. But I beg to differ. Being alone is being at peace!
A few quotes that do justice to what I am trying to convey to me and to "people":
"Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don't resist them - that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like." By Lao Tzu.
T. S. Eliot - "Humankind cannot bear very much reality"
Ellen Glasgow - "Every change is not growth, as all movement is not forward"
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