Love is the most weirdest and overwhelming sentiment ever. It’s the only magic that all the human beings can do. Love will always be one of those things that bamboozle me and amaze me at the same time. I am not talking about the love that you have for your parents, family and friends…it’s that “love”…so yaa ,I have read and heard that it makes you reach on cloud 25. It’s a beautiful feeling and the most powerful shade of happiness. But does it really last? Is it also temporary like everything else?
If love is really so short lived then why does everyone crave to experience it? Don’t they fear future deprivation? When it’s not there in the future or it vanishes away, what will you do other than spending rest of the life crying and mourning over it? And also is it really possible to love only one person for your entire life?
No, I am not against it but I am all questions about it since I have never had “that” feeling. This love seems really complicated and no one can ever understand its pros and cons without experiencing it. I most of the times feel that it just doesn’t exist. It’s either physical attraction or a crush or having similar thinking or maybe even a habit (like when u get used to or addicted to someone).
Now coming down to trust, phew this is the most dangerous and risky thing to do. I have always had a hard time trusting people. When you trust someone you are being totally vulnerable. That person has the full power and authority to hurt you profoundly and you can do nothing whatsoever. Also, love involves the highest quantity of trust, super risky!!
It’s just yesterday that I came across this quote, “Trust is like clay when you break it, it loses its shape and becomes amorphous, no matter how hard you try to win it back, you can never give it the exact same shape that it originally had”. It’s so so so so true!! I don’t understand, why is it so important to trust people but I would feel real bad if my close one’s say that they don’t trust me. No matter how perilous it is, you will always want people to trust you and in turn you will have to trust them. Trust is as complicated as love, isn’t it? Well, such are life diaries (lol...in terms of a very close friend).
Be it love or trust, I am not the risk taker; I am risk averse (as per the financial jargon). But as they say until and unless you take risk you will miss out on fun and joy. Maybe sometime soon in the future I’ll be the risk taker, for now I am already taking a risk blogging instead of studying so bye bye.
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