The good thing about this blog is, I feel no one judges me here and the bad thing is, people do judge but no one says it!! Now, at least here while blogging, I would like be carefree about others.... So Mr brain can you just stop fooling around!! Just let them be opinionated!!
Listening to 'Last Kiss' by Pearl Jam...
I bought two new books yesterday, after long. I wish to read them soon. Both are by Cecilia Ahern. I remember being a crazy Chetan Bhagat fan, I used to die to get his new copies and now, I still havent read 'Revolution 2020'. I don't want to read it either!
Anyway so, the best thing about Bombay Times is, the comic strips!! I love them all... they are sooooo cute! Hi and Lois, Archie, Peanuts are superb and Garfield and Nancy are my favorites!!! They always make me smile :) :)
The rhetorical question of the day is: Is it necessary to love back someone who loves you?
Yesterday, one of my friend (who got in touch after long) brought up this topic and at the moment, I know a bunch of people going through this same problem!
No, I am not a 'Dear Diana', so I don't have an answer to it but I can surely add some more questions...
So yea,
You know that someone loves you but you don't love them back.
On this one of my friend said, out of her soap opera and filmy gyaan, usually girls melt down and end up falling for the guy because the guy parades his care and affection and blah. Why should the girl melt down or give in? I mean, is that love from her side too?
I personally feel and have observed that...
Most of the females get scared of the future. They worry whether they'll ever find anyone else, who will love them at all? And if at all, they find a lover, will he be better than this current proposal? Will rejecting the current guy be a mistake or will accepting him be a mistake?
Often times, it's this fear that makes you say a 'yes'!
Sometimes, this 'yes' turns out to be perfect and sometimes, you meet someone else, who makes you think, what if the 'yes' moment had never transpired? Was it really love?
I really don't have an answer, as I mentioned before but I believe, you should be sure that you love this person, there is chemistry, there are sparks... mere crush or infatuation or a melt-down, should not form the basis of a relationship!
And, this came out from the singlest-girl-ever's mind... LOL... so reckon it at your own risk!! :P
Relationships are stupid and most of the times unnecessary! But, it's India, you are not allowed to think like that, it's a taboo here! If people come know about my thoughts on this, they either think that I'm lying or they doubt my sexuality! But neither am I lying and nor am I gay!
This same friend (whom I mentioned earlier) asked me, 'Don't you feel a vacuum or the emptiness that you do not have your special someone?' I said, "No."
The reasons behind my NO, which I did not give her are...
My life has all the colors without me being in a relationship! I have people who care for me, I have people who make me laugh, I have people who love me, I have people who hurt me and I have people who hate me too!
Moreover, who says that I wont feel "the vacuum" after being in a relationship! I agree with the saying, "Love completes a person". Here, I interpret "Love" as a huge and inclusive term. I do not believe that a relationship completes a person! There's this entire road ahead of me and I am absolutely in no hurry to be with "someone"! Almost everyone around me is looking out for a relationship, I fail to comprehend their 'need' or 'desperation' behind this rummage!!
As the title says, this post is all about what I think.... about things, about feelings, about situations, etc etc...
WAIT, Isn't this entire blog about what I think???? Haha... What the heck, bear with the title, will you?!
That's it, I am watching 'Wild things 3' and it's almost reached climax and since it's a thriller, I need to be attentive...
So bye! :)
P.S. I love the songs from 'Pyaar Impossible'!!
